I am about to file divorce papers. My husband has been vile over a long period of time, highlights include spitting at me!
He thinks we can sort it out, we can't because I will not live like this anymore and I will not let my beautiful boy think this is a normal relationship and family dynamic - we both deserve so much better.
My question is around money. As soon as he gets the papers he will stop paying his half of mortgage, childcare and bills, I know he will because he threatens it all the time. I know I can't get him out of his house (long term plan is to buy him out, well kind of as we're in negative equity but I can take the mortgage on my own) but what can I do when he stops paying in the short term?
Will I have a case with the CSA? Even though we are both in the same house?
I get so angry when I think of him sitting in this house without paying a penny for it or his son but I know this day is coming....
I could just walk away and let it get repossessed but I want a stable home for my son.
Any words of wisdom appreciated x
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mowmi · 12/08/2012 19:47
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