Hello,
I want to make a will (long overdue) but having never used a solicitor before, I am unsure to what extent my needs can be met and to what cost.
My situation:
- single parent with one 13 year old child
- no relatives in this country and only two close friends living in another county
- mortgage, house in negative equity (ca. £40k) owned jointly with ex-partner
- currently living in rented accommodation (own house rented out)
- life insurance of £250k with son as beneficiary (ex-partner still as trustee)
- various debts which are being paid off to a total of £8k
- ca. £35k redundancy money in various savings accounts
My first problem is selecting who to administer the life insurance should anything happen as my son will need this. My ex-partner is trustworthy but it wouldn't be right to expect him to do it (far from ideal), especially since we separated over 2 years ago. I was hoping that for a fee, the solicitor firm could be put down as trustee instead. I have tried the grandparents in Portugal but they are my ex-husband's parents and they failed to complete the form correctly so I have no faith that they will be able to cope with the paperwork etc if needed (and my ex-husband is complete useless and likely to spend all the money on surfboards or the like).
My second problem, and this is outside what I would expect a solicitor to help me with, is what to do with my son? Foster care? I am guessing he'd be able to have a say to some extent? Living with my ex-husband would mean a complete change to his life (new school, new area, new everything) and they are not close (only see each other once every 6 months if as much). I know that I can make a 'wish letter' and possibly leave it with the solicitor but is there more that I can do?
Apologies for the long text and any advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you :-)