my ex left when I was pregnant, was a cheat, violent, a liar and went on to have a relationship with a 15/16 yr old (he said nothing sexual happened before she was 16...still morally iffy at 30 though isnt it?)
He does have my number but hasnt bothered in 13 years. Today he text saying he wants a DNA test. He has had no contact with my son. My son is 13 autistic (aspergers) and does not want contact. I have never had maintainance or even emotional support in 13 years. I have serious reservations about him being with my son and the impact on unwanted change on my son emotionally and at school etc Aspergers means he really struggles with change he doesnt choose.
My ex even changed his name to avoid responsibility when I got pregnant! It just seems mad he could invade our lives now!!
- can he get contact?
- can he make us have DNA testing?
- can he get parental responsibility?
What can I do to protect my child from having the upheaval and from having contact he does not want??
Thank you