Ex partner (not married) walked out on me and 2 year old DS 6 months ago for OW. We have a joint mortgage and he pays nothing towards it now and hasn't for 3 months and we had only had 1.5 years when he left. I only asked him to pay for 3 months or until I got a lodger (which I have and she is lovely so all good there). Anyway he keeps going on about getting his name removed from the mortgage despite me telling him that can't happen yet as I don't earn enough for the mortgage company to give me a mortgage in my own name. The mortgage company have told him they won't release him and so has my solicitor.
Last night I received an email from him saying I have until 31 August to sort my finances out to be able to afford the mortgage on my own or get someone to share the mortgage with me. The only way his name can come off is if we sell which will making myself, DS and dog intentionality homeless and therefore get the joy of being housed in shared accommodation or B and B. He knows all this as I have told him many many times as so shocked he would want this for our DS. This used to be my Grandma's bungalow so has sentimental value to me and it is lovely. There is no equity in it and we owe my mum £47,000 as she paid deposit and also lent us money for house renovations so he would not be getting any money from sale and he would also have to pay back my mum his half of the loans.
I expect it will end up going to court as I have a strong feeling his OW is behind him being so forceful about getting his name off. How much is this going to cost me to try and stop him forcing me to sell it? Can he do this? I am due to get some compensation at some point as I had an extremely traumatic birth and the Dr has been found negligent and struck off but I don't know when that is going to come through and hopefully I will be able to lower the mortgage enough to get it in my sole name. He just won't wait though.
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Happylander · 10/05/2012 20:02
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