He has got an appointment booked next week regarding writing his will.
I know he will ensure that everything, bar a few small bequests, will go to DS, but that will not recognise that I will then be the sole provider for DS. He will leave DS his share of our home, but what if I need to move / downsize, how will I provide for DS's first car, university without the funds or ability to raise them other than by selling my home when I am approaching retirement age. OK, 54 is not quite retirement, but with only another 7 - 11 years of earning potential I will not be in a position to raise another mortgage easily.
I have suggested that he needs to take out another life insurance policy to cover maintenance until DS is 21 to allow for this (thank you BG at work who mentioned that this is what her friend managed to arrange).
If he leaves me a token bequest, can I then challenge the will if I believe it has been drafted in a way to leave DS 'paper rich' but me 'cash poor' or without the ability to raise funds from things held in trust for DS. DS is currently 4, so there is a lot of years to go before he will be independent of us financially.
I know I would no longer have the mortgage to pay, but over time the effective value of that amount will decrease.
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Separated from husband, he is writing a will next week
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vole3 · 19/10/2011 07:39
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