Hi, you remember me from before. ExP reduced contact significantly through a solicitor. Ex only has DS once a week now and one over night stay a month.
He used to have DS half the holidays (although did return him at the end of the day rather than overnight stays) but hasn't since he went through a solicitor for contact. I've covered last half term and xmas holidays. I need to plan the holidays for the rest of the year now and I'm quite happy to pay for childcare myself rather than ask his dad (well not really happy), but don't really see why I should. I want to ask him to cover some of the holidays but don't too (if that makes sense). I suspect he may say no anyway. It feels a shame too that my DS won't get to spend extra time with his dad - poor little soul. I may write to his solicitor to see if he's prepared to have him in the holidays, but before I do, I'd love some advice. I really hate to ask him for anything, but I know I should probably put that to one side because my son could use spending at least a little quality time with his dad and I could use not having to spend all the money I don't really have extra to pay for childcare. Thanks in advance.
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bettiboo · 19/01/2011 13:48
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