I've changed my name on here just in case anyone from rl is hovering. I'm looking for some general advice please if anyone can help ...
Ex-dp and I don't get on, we are barely civil to each other and communicate only when we have to and only about ds.
2 months ago he was arrested for fraud. I was also then arrested as he has paid my child maintenance from this money. It looks as if he has implicated me as I had to send some of it back to him as he sent me too much and so it looks as though I've money laundered I'm currently on bail although solicitor is confident I will be cleared as clearly its nothing to do with me
Since this happened he hasn't paid any maintenance (have gone back through the csa on advice of solicitor when arrested). Csa are chasing him up on this.
Lots of friends / family keep telling me I should stop access to ds, I'm not sure that would be a good thing, but don't know where I stand with it all. A family friend who is a religious minister seems to think I can get a restraining order and can't believe I haven't already done so. Is this right? Should I be doing so?
Any advice would be very welcome!
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thesnailandthewhale · 26/08/2010 22:23
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