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I'm 38 weeks pregnant with my 4th DC, DH and I are 30, this is his second child. I had DS (13) and DD1(11) when I was still a teenager then met DH and we had DD2 who is 6. We are having another DD and are pretty sure we are finished.
DH is more than happy to have a vasectomy, he was happy to have no more when we had dd2 so he's not an issue really. It's me. I want to take away the option of having any more children. I started so young and I get so broody once they start school I don't think I can trust myself not to want another one in 5 or so years.
This pregnancy has made me realise that would be stupid as it's been pretty awful and the DCs have suffered with me not being able to get out etc...
I know if I nagged DH enough in a few years he would give in and have another one (he's an amazing Dad but is more practical than me ) this is why I need to have the decision taken away from me, I would never be so selfish as to make him have the op then put him through a reversal so it really would be IT. I adore my DC's.. it really is the whole pregnancy thing that puts me off having anymore.
He is waiting for a referral. It will probably be a couple of months yet so I have a while to decide, I think I have made my mind up that he should have it done...
Has anyone done this and regretted it? Any thoughts would be welcome.
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KatnKankles · 27/04/2010 00:15
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