I'm interested to know how many mums of four go out to work and what coping strategies you use? I have always worked part time but just recently I seem to be struggling more than ever. I thought as the kids got older ( now between 17 and 11) things would get easier but they just seem to get harder. It may just be that I am pushing 50 and possibly pre menopausal but I am struggling. i do shift work mainly nights/ weekends and it is exhausting. When I am at home it just seems to be an endless round of laundry and housework. The house is messy and a dirty which stresses me but I just don't have the energy to sort it. On top of that there is a endless round of lifts/ after school activities/ orthodontic appointments/ Uni open days/ careers fairs etc etc. I have already reduced my days at work to 3 and they won't let me drop any more.
My dh is very good at doing his share but he is not in the best of health and spends all his weekends ferrying the kids around and never gets a break. I'm reluctant to ask the kids to do more around the house, the eldest has a part time job and in final Alevel year, ds2 is doing his GCSE's.
How do others cope? I feel like I'm sinking. I'm snappy and irritable .I feel like the only option is to give up my job but then money would be an added stress
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Babyroobs · 05/10/2016 23:18
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