I have one ss and one dd but cannot afford another as we have too many debts and can barely afford to live now. I love the children we have to bits and count myself as very lucky and blessed to have them. Just feel sad that I will not be experiencing another pregnancy and raising another baby. Wanted to have another baby of my own. Not sure what responses I expect, just wondering if anyone else has been in this position and how long it took you to get over it.