We have 3 daughters. My eldest and middle one are 23 months apart.
From the day we came home from hospital DD1 has loathed DD2. She smacked her in the face when she was 3 weeks old. She used to say: put the baby sleeping, put her back.
My eldest takes every toy away from her middl sister, prompting tat one to hit her or scratch as she's not such an outward, great talker. She's very sweet and kind, just more quiet.
My eldest is lovely on her on and so lovely with my youngest 1.5 year old, she says she has to 'protect' her youngest sister from the naughty middle one. She often said that DD2 was not her sister but DD3 is.
A few days ago DD1 turned the picture of DD2 around, so you could only see the back of the photograph, then she placed her own picture right next to DD3. I was so shocked and upset, I still am.
My middle one is now cottoning on to this feeling towards her. On her on volition, without knowing what has happened she took her own picture and tht of DD3 away and placed them next to each other on another window sill, away from my DD1's photo.
We have tried everything bar a psychologist. We have each spent individual time with each child, we do not pit them against each other.
My eldest shows a lot of signs of Sibling Rivalry Disorder: she wants o be carried, wants to sit in the double buggy if my middle one is walking, she wants a baby bottle of milk in bed, she refuses to dress herself (though this has gotten better in the last 2 weeks). I am at a loss as to what to do.
Any ideas?
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FamousFiveForever · 31/05/2013 22:59
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