3 x ds (4.9, 2.9 and 13m). Didn't plan on 4th but would have wanted one perhaps in time. Dh dead set against another. Found out pregnant by accident with fourth. Feel like crying. Dh not happy but still speaking to me. Has affected plans massively as had hoped to emigrate but dh now thinks impossible and too much on our own. Also just started back at work after 12 months mat leave with ds3. I'm already the office joke for having 3 so quick. Termination not an option for me personally. Please someone say nice things. I'm so worried about how we'll afford childcare as I can't give up work and about dh happiness and also what people will think - dh gave me lecture this am on how people will perceive us as irresponsible teenagers. Will I get over shock? No idea how pregs I am - find out thurs but think probs 10 weeks by size of me. Just upset today really.
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