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I speak Finnish, but I'm in London sadly. What part of Finland are you from? I'm from Lapland (specifically Savukoski) and therefore I also speak Inari (a Sami language), but I lived in Helsinki for a while. However, every half term and for 5wks in the summer, I'm in Wiltshire. Sorry I can't help you though!