Some good friends of ours are about to embark on their first round of IVF. They are quite private people and not given to talking their feelings through too much, which I completely respect. I would like to send something however, to show that we care, and let them know we are thinking of them. Obviously I will write a card to go with it, but I am a bit of a gusher when it comes to emotional stuff and I don't want to make them feel that they need to share details with us because I have rambled on in a card, so I thought the gesture of sending something might be better. I was wondering if a little hamper with a few things they like might be nice, or does that seem a bit odd and trivialising things? We have had our own issues with pregnancy loss in the last year and I know that just saying something, showing concern was what mattered to me, but I can't pretend to know how they must be feeling in totally different circumstances. I don't want to offend or intrude but I really want to show we care. So, to those beginning/undergoing IVF, is there something you would like to receive from a friend? Many thanks for your help.
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