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Feeling like my period is coming :/ :(

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enocar · 08/10/2015 22:38

Well I'm now 7dp3dt and I'm having that feeling I get a few days before my period :( Not cramping, but a dull feeling in my body. I just want to get this over now, I know I've failed :( Hubby just thinks I'm being negative, he won't talk to me about how I'm feeling, but I know the way my body feels, I've got another 7 days before I get the official bfn :(

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AppleSnapple · 08/10/2015 22:49

The day before I did a positive pt on my last pregnancy I felt EXACTLY as though my period was going to arrive any minute. I spent the day in tears. He's now nearly 3 Smile
I am not trying to give you false hope, just hope. All fingers and toes crossed for you, it's not over til it's over.

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enocar · 08/10/2015 23:10

Thankyou :( I would really like to be proved wrong, I just don't think it's going to happen for me :(

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Chattycat78 · 09/10/2015 07:33

I felt the same too. I even had brown spotting for several days and I told my dh that it was all over. I actually made a point of not doing a test until we got to the clinic on test day because I didn't want to know. So unless AF actually arrives, I would say its definitely not over yet!

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grubbyslippers · 09/10/2015 07:37

For the first 3 months I felt like that with spotting- I was assured it was normal and now my DS is 8 :) I know it's easy for someone to say this but, please don't worry x

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enocar · 13/10/2015 18:37

Update......Well I started spotting at 9dp3dt, it was brown, not much more of a smear on the tissue, still cramping. 11dp3dt still bleeding brown blood but more of it....had left message on answer machine of ivf clinic, as I was in work before they opened, got call back in afternoon said to increase cyclogest from 2 a day to 3......couple of hours later I had heavy bleeding and cramps, agony, not even exaggerating, even with paracetamol and a hot water bottle I was near tears from the pain :( And I get period pains every month, so not like I'm not used to them! Bleeding is still heavy today, with clots so no doubt i'm out this time :( Still taking the cyclogest, at least until Thursday when I have to phone the hospital to give my negative reading. I wish my AF could have stayed away until testing had been done, but least this way I have a few days to gather my thoughts before I give the news to those in RL who know. Here's to the next ivf journey Wine......2nd time lucky perhaps........

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