We have been ttc dc2 for 3 and a half years. Tests, examinations, surgery, infertility treatment... and still nothing. DS is 6 years old and has even started asking for a brother or sister which is like a knife to the heart! We have no family nearby - no cousins, or kids of old friends who are as good as family. I think sometimes that would make it easier, if he at least had extended family. I know I am lucky to have a child but this is not the family I envisioned. I worry my son often feels lonely and I am so tired of the rollercoaster of hope and disappointment. We probably have two more goes with treatment but at this stage I just don't ever see it happening. I'm trying to look for the benefits of a one child family, but that's just me trying to be positive. Deep down I'm aching with disappointment, and the hurt of years of questions about when were going to have another and watching friends families grow and grow. How do I accept that this isn't going to happen and get on with my life?
Sorry, BFN yesterday and I just need to have a moan!
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dreamoutloud · 23/06/2015 16:34
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