My DB told me today that SIL has been told by her consultant that she has complete ovarian failure and IVF would not work. She's 38. She and DB didn't want kids for a long time but she changed her mind about a year ago and they threw themselves wholeheartedly into TTC. DB is not upset so much for himself but is sad that SIL is so disappointed. SIL is beating herself up about waiting so long even though she has been told her ovaries may have failed 10 years ago as the condition is not necessarily age related.
I haven't spoken to SIL about it but I do want to, however I am wary of saying something that might be seen as insensitive. DH and I also have fertility issues (male factor plus I am 41) and to be honest I am a little bit sad that possibly neither DB nor I will continue our family line (our parents and only uncle are dead so we are the only ones left). I won't say that to SIL though, I promise. Any tips on the right thing to say in such a situation? They are against donor eggs or adoption.
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What to say to couple with fertility problems?
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JessieMcJessie · 18/06/2015 15:20
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