First time posting as I need some advice from people more experienced in this!
I've been invited to a christening next month of a dear friend, and several other friends will be there who I haven't seen in a long time. They all have children and I'm literally the 'odd one out' in the group.
I've recently been told I can't have any (bio) children due to health issues, and treatment like ivf can't help due to the issue. No-one knows apart from my husband yet - I have already drifted away from the group somewhat, due to several friends relocating and/or choosing to spend more time with friends who are mums (as you do, no criticism here, but I do miss them a lot).
I'm just worried about how to handle the inevitable questions about our family plans - we were the last to get married as well, and the group were a little insensitive about that until he got around to proposing! I don't want to be upset around my friend on her big day but I don't know what to say without becoming visibly upset, my husband is a quiet guy and isn't one to pipe up in my defence.
Could I please ask how you guys would handle this situation? I already missed the last christening due to illness, and I would feel really bad at backing out!
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MaizieDaiziesxx · 12/06/2015 20:12
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