I'm 34, 35 next week and we have a little girl, 3yrs old. Since she was 3 months old we've been trying for a second baby. Had all the tests done after about 1.5yrs of trying, and then the next year was spent on waiting list to see consultant who said come back in 6months, then saw another consultant who said IUI was our next step.
We didn't really like the sound of that as I didn't want to be on loads of drugs. We did see egg sharing ivf advertised at the fertility clinic and signed up to that. 2 weeks later my amh results came back - 12.6 which was not good enough for egg sharing ivf. So now I'm thinking is it worth having IUI (cant start for 3 more months)
For the last 3 months I've been having acupuncture, eating high protein, low-carb diet, pressing seeds in my ears (acupressure), not having sex for 2 weeks after ovulation, not eating sugar, not eating dairy or refined carbs, and now taking ba zhen wan for my 4th cycle of acupuncture and I'm ready to just shout ENOUGH! I've had ENOUGH!
It's very very stressful but every time I think of quitting and giving up on our dream of having a little brother or sister for our daughter, I think about how happy I am to have 3 sisters and I cant bear the thought of my daughter being an only child.
It's a horrible emotional rollercoaster and its made worse by the consultant and the acupuncturist both telling me they cant understand why we're not pregnant.
Our daughter was natural conception after 9 months of trying. So I just think why cant I have another one? What has changed??
Does anyone else feel like this?
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Almost ready to give up on second baby?
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lob12 · 27/05/2015 20:05
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