Hello all
Not posted on this board before, but long time lurker and now on the lovely Tamoxigang thread.
Brief back story is, DH & I have been TTC for 5 years or so and had our first round of IVF in January which failed. Shortly after that (day before starting next IVF cycle argh!), I found out I had breast cancer. Thankfully, that's all in hand now, had the surgery and don't need chemo - for which I'm so grateful.
However, we'd still like to do an egg collection before I start radiotherapy in a month or so. I'd have to freeze the embryo and look at a frozen transfer in a couple of years - taking a break from tamoxifen as I can't be pregnant whilst taking that drug (which I'm told will be prescribed for 10 years).
Has anyone been in this situation? Am struggling to get answers at the minute - oncologist is effectively saying to me 'don't be daft, you're life is too important' and fertility clinic don't know what to do and are following oncologist advice - as you'd expect. My cancer was oestrogen receptive which is why I'm in this situation so maybe we need to accept this is over now and forget IVF in any way shape or form?
I'd be really grateful to hear from anyone with similar experience.
Thanks all
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WinoHamster · 13/05/2015 17:04
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