So the title says it all. Found out today that Ivf failed, I was hoping for a Christmas miracle. My husband keeps saying don't worry, relax over Christmas and we will try again next year, but I am struggling , I just can't face it all again, especially as it feels like its all for nothing.
I don't agree that you should 'relax and not worry'. Let yourself grieve for the baby you thought you could have had. Let yourself give up, even if just for the time being. You can always 'un give up' next year. Focus on how you feel NOW instead of hurtling blindly towards the next try. Take care.