Girl in Magaluf giving oral sex to 24 men for free drink

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We we were talking about this at work today, and the majority verdict was that this girl is a slapper and will do anything for a free drink.
This may well be true.
However, I was trying to make a point about the objectification of women and how this would never happen the other way around. I couldn't explain myself properly and ended up looking an idiot blush
Can someone help me explain what I mean.
Maybe this should be in Feminist Chat?

avoiretre Thu 03-Jul-14 19:38:03

I think if you're going to do that, it should be for something more than £3 drink!
I'm sure more guys would do the same (on women of course) for the drink, so I'd say you are wrong.

Justawaterformeplease Thu 03-Jul-14 19:39:57

For a start, I bet you would never get 24

LoveBeingInTheSun Thu 03-Jul-14 19:40:17

Tbh I would be asking how many of the people I was having the discussion with would be on the reviving end, and how tgey feel about the men involved?

itiswhatitiswhatitis Thu 03-Jul-14 19:40:46

I was watching a bit of that sunny beach programme the other day. Thoroughly depressing to watch

avoiretre Thu 03-Jul-14 19:42:52

They should be on the receiving end for equality purposes!

SandorClegane Thu 03-Jul-14 19:50:10

Why is only the woman involved in this being judged and said to have disgraced herself?
Oh yeah, because misogyny.

AuntieStella Thu 03-Jul-14 19:51:31

OP and title say "girl", subsequent posts say "woman"

Is this a child protection issue or not?

Stella she's a teenager or early 20's.
Sorry I'd assumed people would know the story.

Can't do links on my phone but here is a Buzzfeed link

http://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanhatesthis/magaluf-mamading-sex-parties

itiswhatitiswhatitis Thu 03-Jul-14 19:57:49

I think it's fairly common for 18 to early 20's year olds to be referred to as girls. Not sure child protection is the issue here.

avoiretre Thu 03-Jul-14 19:59:52

Didn't she get though all 24 in 2 minutes? They can't have got long each! grin

Methe Thu 03-Jul-14 20:03:46

We were talking about this at work today and we all disgusted.. In her and in the men involved.

However.. We all said how lucky we were to be idiot teens/twenty something's in the era before smart phones and social media.

I have never given 20 men a blow job in one night but I've done some hideous things that make me ill to remember.

Thank fuck for not being 24 nowerdays.

bamboostalks Thu 03-Jul-14 20:03:58

I really think that kind of humour is pathetic and ill judged in this case. Stories like this contribute to the sexual objectification of women. It's horrible.

SevenZarkSeven Thu 03-Jul-14 20:04:17

How bizarre.

To ejaculation or just a quick suck? I mean, the former would take hours and kill your mouth. The latter the blokes aren't getting much out of it are they.

Just,what's the point?

There is of course a big conversation around lots of stuff to do with this type of thing generally (objectification of women / why attention on her not not the men etc etc etc loads of stuff) but specifically here, without knowing how wasted she was / was a huge amount of peer pressure applied to get her to do it / how old she is / what she was actually thinking I don't really feel kind of much one way or the other. Which I am actually a bit surprised about.

I wouldn't judge her. I would wonder if she was abused as a child as this encounter was totally about pleasing men and not herself.

SandorClegane Thu 03-Jul-14 20:04:53

Only someone with a complete lack of intelligence and empathy could find this funny. It's fucking grim and depressing.

bamboostalks Thu 03-Jul-14 20:05:00

That was to avoiretre btw.

SevenZarkSeven Thu 03-Jul-14 20:06:22

Methe yes this whole cameras everywhere thing is a nightmare for young people, I can't imagine anything worse. It must be affecting their behaviour (general point not relating to this story).

MikeLitoris Thu 03-Jul-14 20:06:32

She was told by a rep she would gotta free holiday if she did it, not realising a 'holiday' was the name of a cocktail.

I find the whole thing revolting. The woman, everyone of the pathetic men who let her and the idiots filming it and watching.

SevenZarkSeven Thu 03-Jul-14 20:06:45

Who found it funny?

wafflyversatile Thu 03-Jul-14 20:07:45

24 men took blowjobs for drinks. Have they no pride?

MikeLitoris Thu 03-Jul-14 20:08:02

I've seen the video and it appears to be just hmm a quick suck then on to the next one.

SevenZarkSeven Thu 03-Jul-14 20:08:14

"She was told by a rep she would gotta free holiday if she did it, not realising a 'holiday' was the name of a cocktail."

OK

Now this ^^^ has made me incredibly angry.

They need to give her a proper fucking holiday.

avoiretre Thu 03-Jul-14 20:09:13

Yes, she needs a proper reward for this! Are you serious Seven?

SevenZarkSeven Thu 03-Jul-14 20:09:14

And they need to stop tricking / manipulating / pressurising young women into sex acts / sex performance for "prizes".

Let alone go afterwards "ha ha I was joking here's a cocktail".

What absolute FUCKERS.

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