Just so sad

(73 Posts)
WildThongIWannaKnowForSure Mon 15-Apr-13 20:27:37

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-suffolk-22157968

WildThongIWannaKnowForSure Mon 15-Apr-13 20:28:06

Sorry here

chocolatespiders Mon 15-Apr-13 20:49:36

sad

BCBG Mon 15-Apr-13 20:51:56

I can't get over the ages - she must have spent most of four years pregnant sad

Does anyone else see news stories like this and wonder about PND or abuse in the relationship? Before I had DS I would have thought it was sad but now I question it based on my own experiences.

She had a 3, 2, and 1 year old and was heavily pregnant.

sad

AuntieStella Mon 15-Apr-13 20:55:23

I've seen that: dreadful story?

And I note the police have said it's the early stages of a wide investigation, but that there was no threat to the community. It sounds as if they really don't know what has happened, and I hope the investigation team gets to the bottom of it swiftly. It must be a very difficult case to be working on sad

Wannabestepfordwife Mon 15-Apr-13 21:34:46

I bawled my eyes out those poor children and poor woman she must have been desperately depressed.

I can't imagine what the father must be going through

duchesse Mon 15-Apr-13 21:37:02

Horrendous. There must have been no-one and no services for her to turn to, and the prospect of 4 children under 4 was too much for her. Poor woman and children and poor poor family.

Geordieminx Mon 15-Apr-13 21:38:59

So desperately sad.

I still don't understand thugh, why when a father kills his kids he is seen as evil, when its a mother everyone presumes she must have PND?

queenofthepirates Japan Mon 15-Apr-13 21:43:56

I just hope they went quietly, I cannot imagine what could have made this happen but my heart breaks for her and her family.

Figgygal Mon 15-Apr-13 21:44:58

The prospect of 4 under 4 is very overwhelming!!

Sad for all involved

AuntieStella Mon 15-Apr-13 21:45:03

And, even more sadly, it's the second incident of mother and children found dead this week: BBC article on Ruislip deaths on 13th

LynetteScavo England Mon 15-Apr-13 21:46:04

You don't need PND to be overwhelmed by 3 small DC and being heavily pregnant!

Very sad.

HeyYoniYoni Mon 15-Apr-13 21:51:57

geordieminx because pnd is an illness that (mostly) men don't suffer from. It's rare that they would have that as a reason, whereas when a woman does, usually it is

2old2beamum Russia Mon 15-Apr-13 21:52:00

Poor poor girl I just hope it wasn't benefit related.
May they all rest in peace.
I am totally gutted this can happen

Alibabaandthe40nappies Mon 15-Apr-13 21:57:46

Is there more info on the full website, because from what is written in the report I can see on my phone there is nothing to confirm it was her who killed them?

IYoniWantToBeWithYou Mon 15-Apr-13 21:58:16

I find it impossible to sympathise with anyone that can kill a child, let alone three. My thoughts and sympathies are firmly with the children, the father and the extended family. So very sad sad

worley Mon 15-Apr-13 22:07:54

they're not confirming yet it was her that killed them. her ex dp had left her a while ago for someone else and she had been threatening suicide on FB and posting she would be taking her babies with her
sad (as stated in the daily mail)
I's all very sad.

worley Mon 15-Apr-13 22:12:28

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2309426/Lowestoft-death-Mother-fell-death-children-aged-3-2-11-months-dead-home-heavily-pregnant-just-split-boyfriend.html

worley Mon 15-Apr-13 22:13:14

sorry daily mail

timtam23 Mon 15-Apr-13 22:16:44

Dreadfully sad for everyone concerned, it stopped me in my tracks today when I heard this. Poor babies sad

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme Mon 15-Apr-13 22:25:55

This is just up the road from me. It's all over the local news. I too bawled when I read it. Those poor little children. I went straight upstairs to look at my dc's asleep in their beds. How disturbed would you have to be do this to your own children? So awful. Feel desperately sorry for all of them. sad

IYoniWentInForAPintOfMilk Tue 16-Apr-13 05:41:45

I live a few minutes from where this happened, this is devastating news. I cannot imagine what the family are going through.
I think the way the mail have reported this is disgusting, in one sentence saying they can't speculate and in the next saying she did it, its just horrible.
This is so sad, I cannot stop thinking about it. My heart breaks for them all.
RIP those little angels.

Tanith Tue 16-Apr-13 07:35:52

There is such a thing as pre-natal depression.
A friend of mine had it many years ago: she killed herself when she was 7 months pregnant.

Tanith. sad

I don't automatically assume anything with stories like this, it's so sad. I hope the police investigate and find the answers.

Poor woman being left for someone else when she had 3 littlies and another on the way!

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