It's becoming a battleground, mostly between DH and I.
He's of the "no tv/pc/anything till the homework is done" school of thought and I don't mind a short period of relaxation first, which seems generally to suit dd better. However, she's let us down big time in the past few weeks, taking forever to select images on the pc for homework (that's what she tells me she's been doing anyway; have parental controls to ensure internet is safe, so tend to stay out of it), then even longer assembling. Much of her homework is producing A3 posters. She can spend HOURS on this stuff! Of course, most of it should have happened in half-term but, even though she said she was going to be firm with her cousin and do some while we were away, it didn't happen.
DH reckons we should fix her bedtime early, so she has to do it before then or she'll end up with detention. I don't mind if she gets a detention for not doing stuff that she should have done, but can't work out if 8pm is too early at this age given that DD finds getting up very hard to do, but often wakes in the night. I've tried working through her plan with her to avoid endless working on it, but have failed miserably to get her to see that it's in any way necessary. No amount of pointing out that she won't have unlimited time in a test seems to do me any good. We are all fed up tonight, so advice is welcome. How do others manage it?
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Everhopeful · 07/11/2013 00:34
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