Grrrrr. I need to rant. Thought I might find other people who understand where I am coming from in this topic
I have been in tears all afternoon after speaking with a relative on the phone. I have not spoken to her much over the past couple of years that ds has been home educated, and now I am wishing I hadn't spoke to her at all.
She was so negative about me homeschooling ds (nearly 7), to the point of being really nasty and agressive (but in an ever so sugery way ).
She has three children all around the same age as ds, who are all at school. She brought up every negative point about H.E, does he ever leave the house? Does he have any friends? I am sure you have all heard them before.
She was going on and on about all the school firends that her kids had at her house today, and did the other home ed kids we know live near us? Well, no, not really, but we are in a village in the middle of knowhere. No one but farmers live near us.
I was telling her about all the activities he does, the home school groups and activities and sports clubs he attends, what subjects I teach him and how, even how many times a week he sees other kids (she actually had the nerve to ask). But everything was met with a negative comment, and tales of how great her kids were doing at school.
What came aross most was the fact that she didn't think I was intelligent enough to teach my own child anything, and there were loads of comments about me being strange for liking him being with me all day, as she 'couldn't stand being with her kids all day'. Fair enough, but what has that got to do with me?
Then I got the old 'but of course you won't home educate at secondary level, will you' line. Who knows? I explained about all the home ed teenagers I have met, who are lovely, well educated, smart, confident people and she just laughed at me again. She kept telling me how great her kids school was, how fab the teachers were - that is great, I am happy for them. I have never said I am against schools, it just didn't work out for ds.
Since the begining of September, I have really got into the swing of home ed, ds is happy and is learning so much and enjoys what he is learning, but now I feel so low about it all again.
I feel even worse as it is ds' birthday next month and I have invited her and her family to his party. Most of the other kids coming areH.E'd and I don't want her giving thier parents, who I am trying to form friendships with, the third degree and making them feel uncomfortable in my home.
Over the past 18 months, I have worked really hard to find ds clubs and activities to be involved in, home ed groups etc, but now I feel really crap about everything. I have only really felt confident in what we are doing in these past few weeks, and now I am feeling so down again
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Why do people have to be so nasty about H.E?
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lolapoppins · 03/10/2009 18:23
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