DS is 3 and has been going to preschool 2 mornings a week since Feb (2.6 at the time) He used to love it but no longer. He has some SN but not sure what really - he is certainly very hyperactive, extremely bright, mad, creative, restless, obsessive, has some ASD traits, and a lot of emotional insecurities. He is an odd child, for example he identifies food by what part of the body they strengthen i.e. scallions are good for your immune system which has soldiers who fight viruses, spinach gives him superhero muscles and so on.
Anyway his behaviour several months back was actually pretty atrocious and me and DH were at our wits end. Summer break and things gradually got better and we were thinking this is so weird how his behaviour is like a cycle rather than a constant. Well he has been back at preschool 2 weeks and you guessed it he has been the 3 year old if not from hell certainly from a very dark and bitter place. He has said every day but the first day back at school that he does not want to go. Today I overheard him telling one of his "friends" he doesnt want to go. He started growling at me and hitting me. To be clear I have never ever left him there crying. When he gets in the door he settles and is in the main ok just grunts at me if he is really cross.
I said to him, look if you stay here today we can talk about whether or not you will come back on Thursday. And I spoke to his teacher, who is lovely. She said she can show me pics she takes of him throughout the session where he is laughing and smiling and playing and he seems happy while there but that she understands where I am coming from.
The thing is it only just clicked with me that his really bad behaviour has exactly coincided with his return to school and ended pretty much with the summer break. And I realised how much he developed over the summer weeks. So I'm thinking of home edding.
My concerns:
I live in a small village and dont drive: will we get out, will he see enough other children?
Will I ever get any time away from him? He doesnt self entertain at all so this is a concern as I was rather looking forward to several hours a day on my own.
He is so hyperactive, what if I cant get him to sit down to learn lessons?
And anything else I havent thought of! Thank you!
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oooooooh this hurts... I'm really thinking of home ed for DS, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me advice
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hereidrawtheline · 15/09/2009 09:40
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