Hello all! Everyone having a nice weekend I hope weathers great!
Just thought I'd share a little snippet from my life that I found amusing - just for conversation really.
Anyway I have always got on really well with the mother of my DS's father. She's always been very kind, and everytime I drop round her house she always greets me effusively and invites me to eat till i'm stuffed.
Anyway i'm dropping the children round to their dad yesterday, and I go into the passageway and I hear nothing,(usually she calls out hello as soon as I come in) assuming she hasn't heard me, I finally locate her in the living room, where I'm greeted with a reluctant and curt hello - she's not even looking at me.
Then she says: "So you're not sending _ to secondary school?" Just like that.
And I say: Not unless he wants to go.
Then she says: So what's going to happen? You're not going to apply for a place?!
And carefully just to please her I say "Maybe much later." She says something like "Hmmm" which sounds very disapproving.
After that there is a long uncomfortable silence so I attempt to make small chat so I can withdraw myself without being rude.
There is no offer of food or drink despite it being a hot day.
Anyway DS's father offers me lunch and I eat (I really shouldn't have but he cooked it) Later i'm in the kitchen on my own with DS and she walks in without looking at me, puts something in the bin and walks straight out again in silence.
When I leave I poke my head round the door to say goodbye and she says "you're going?" and I say "yes" and she says nothing; no goodbye or anything.
How things change!
Can't say i'm really upset or anything, I've just been trying to work out whether she is like this because she really disaproves or because her son hasn't listened to her negative remarks about it. (I later learn from DS's dad that she has been very against it and been urging him to send them back to school, hehe!) She's used to getting her own way with all her kids and their wives and girlfriends, so in my situation where I have majority say, she doesn't have full control and I think that is getting to her
But I do like her and have always got on with her until now!
Just thought I'd add this in the hope that it may make anyone experiencing similar anti-HE disapproval from inlaws/family/strangers etc feel like they're not alone you're really part of a big club!
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Have you joined the HE disapproval club?
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2kidzandi · 02/05/2009 09:37
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