- she wants to live in self catered accommodation
- she does not like the small sizes of the colleges / social units
- having to go back to college for lunch while doing a lab based degree does not make sense
- the whole gown and formal dinner stuff smacks of coat tails rather than standing on own feet
- she does not fancy fighting through hordes of tourists while moving between buildings
- having a tutor picked by which college they are based in rather than their research specialism seems very odd to her
Also, for what she wants to do, the course at Oxford is not that well balanced
and Cambridge, despite having a fab course was not a place that felt like home when she visited for 2 days.
So she will be putting other Universities on her form and taking a great deal of stress out of this house.
For what its worth, those of her friends I've chatted to are also ruling out Oxbridge in favour of other Unis because of the first four points.
What are other people's reasons for ruling out Oxbridge, despite having the grades?