DS is considering going abroad to work after uni, possibly to the USA or Canada. He was out there for a few weeks before doing a research project and loved it. I have to say deep inside I am gutted. I can't imagine the months on end of not seeing him and not knowing much about his life. He also is likely to go for an indefinite period, he has no girlfriend or other real ties to the UK. The not knowing when he will return makes me uneasy (and the possible thought he may never come back to live here).
I have a younger DD who graduates this year and will be around, possibly living at home or nearby in London. I am on my own and while I want DS to not be held back, part of me does feel I will loose him just a bit. I know I am selfish feeling these things and I should be supporting his ambitions! I can't get my head around the fact he is building his own life I guess.
I feel it is a bit of impending empty nest syndrome. As timings have worked when he lived in halls, DD was still at home, then he returned to live at home for his 3rd and now 4th year (while DD went off to uni) so I have always had one of them about.
Anyone with experience? How does keeping in contact work and visiting with the hefty air fares? How have your DC found it abroad?
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DalmationDots · 21/10/2013 14:31
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