Nearly posted on somebody else's thread due to identical situation but didn't want to hijack. I really need to think this out and hope typing will help.
i'm going back to work on Monday and am doing settling-in at the childminders. First day was brilliant, ds (9 months) was in fact the only child there once everyone had gone to school, only left him for an hour but he was happy as larry. Childminder is warm, v.v. experienced and smiley. thought everything was sorted.
day 2 somehow has gone wrong. arrived to find two more kids than yesterday before school, making 9 in all - it seemed like a bus shelter, all watching cartoons in a row. then after the trip to school, ds was there with one other young child; then childminder's adult son turned up with her grandchild, plus her daughter-in-law. All Ok though I felt a bit shy, not much talking. went out to do some food shopping. came back to find everyone watching tv in silence and ds conked out on the sofa - he normally has his nap in his cot but there was no room for the minder to put up her travelcot which she did yesterday.
i have no concerns at all about ds's basic safety with this minder, and he has seemed happy throughout. i am really not happy at all re the amount of tv watching - we don't watch much at home and the minder said originally that she liked to take the children out. Also somehow the ever changing rows of people coming through the house really upset me.
i wonder if i am just having normal feelings about going back to work. anyone who has persisted this far, does it get easier? feel a fool because i have let go a place at an OK nursery because i read too many books about boys being better off in a home environment. i must do my 3 months to 'pay back' maternity leave. worried, tearful and confused. thanks for reading - if you're still with me - wish my cheerful little ds the best.
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acnebride · 02/11/2004 22:28
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