I have been trying to settle my boy into a nursery for the last few weeks. He is only going to go two afternoons a week and is nearly 17 months old. The first day I took him I stayed with him for all but 10 minutes, where he cried so much he was sweating all over and his hair was wet. The staff advised me to take him home and we would try again the next day. The next day he was OK for about 15 minutes and was doing some drawing outside but started to get very upset so they come and got me. We then had a weekend break and back again on Monday. He again cried and cried and was only able to be left for a few minutes. The next day he was better but started to cry as we arrived. He did not go the next day but the following day managed about an hour, although he was very upset when I left. On Friday we managed half-an-hour but he cried for 15 minutes of that. On Friday evening he had a temperature and has been off colour all weekend, so this may have had something to do with his tears on Friday.
I am worried about how long I should keep putting him and me through this and at what point I should say "enough". I don't want to cause any emotional damage to him. The nursery staff are all very good and asure me that he is going to settle because he can be comforted by me and then walks away and plays on his own, and won't look for me for a good few minutes.
Has anyone else been here? Any suggestions on how to make it easier?
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Tickles · 26/08/2002 11:05
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