Up until now, both my DDs (3and a half and one and a half) have attended a nusery close to where I work (11 miles from home). I'm really lucky in that increasingly, I can work from home more and more and this, coupled with the fact that my kids will go to a local primary school, I've now taken the decision to move them closer to home. I figure that DDs will become friends at nursery with kids who will then go onto the same school - so easing the transition from nursery to school.
Last Friday, I took them both into 'new' nursery for a trial hour. After 30mins, while the kids were having a drink, the staff suggested I leave for the final 30mins, which I was happy to do as the wee one was clinging to me up till then. I said my goodbyes and told them I'd be back soon. When I returned, younger DD was playing happily, but staff told me that my 3yr old had cried as soon as I left (although was not crying at the point I returned).
She has since this visit however, woken me almost every night, insisting on sleeping with me (won't let her dad console her)and getting herself in a real state if we try to return her to her own bed. Last night (3am) when I asked her if she was looking forward to new nursery (as I suspected this was behind it), she told me she didn't want to go there and that everyone was sad at 'old' nursery that she's leaving.
I feel soooo guilty - DP says she will adapt quickly - she's a very sociable, if sensitive child. She has a very distinct group of friends at her old nursery, (one of whom left 5 months ago and she STILL talks about how much she loved this friend!!) and the carers there are lovely.
I'm already considering the option of moving them back to the old nursery if this doesn't work for her (and if I don't start getting some sleep!!), but I don't know a) if this is a sensible thing to do (move them back, I mean) or b) how long I should give it before I know whether or not it's working.
Sorry about the long post, I find this parenting lark so difficult sometimes....
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Help - distressed 3yr old at thought of new nursery
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Motherdearest · 23/08/2004 10:52
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