DS (16m) has been attending the same nursery since he was 8m old, the staff is very nice and he seems to have a very strong bond with 3 other children his same age. However, this nursery was our second option because there is another we consider is better but the wating list was enormous.
After 8m of waiting we have been given 2 days at the nursery and considering how happy DS seems to be at it's current nursery I feel bad about changing him now, the advantages of the better nursery over the current one are as follows:
- Better program of activities
- Better equipment (lots and lots of montessori style materials and learning orientated toys)
- DS will get the same key worker for all the time he attends the nursery to allow for stability and continuity (currently he has one for the day but the staff is always the same)
- It's 20% cheaper than current one (a great relief for our battered finances)
On the down side
- They have just one big room where children 18m to 5 yrs are together (oportunity to relate to children of all ages -with all it pros and cons-but also a less cosy environment which I'm not sure is completely convenient for little boys)
- The day is shorter by 1/2 hour at the end of the day
- It's not on our way to work, we would need to take a 10minutes detour to leave him/pick him up at nursery.
- He will loose contact with his beloved friends (and believe me, they are like brothers)
So the options are:
A. Stay at current nursery
B. Go to new nursery on Thurdays and Fridays and to current one on Monday and Tuesdays.
C. Go to new nursery and forget about current one.
Which option do you consider is better?