Hello everyone! Apologies if this isn't the correct thread but as a new user and first time poster I'm still getting used to the site. At the moment I need some advice but I also need a bit of rant as I'm quite pissed off.
On the 17th of December my father passed away at the age of 45. I didn't return to work until the 27th, I would have returned sooner but where I work was closed Christmas Eve/Day and Boxing Day. I returned to work thinking a distraction might be good for me. Since then no one I work with (a small team of five) has really bothered to ask how I'm doing. I think up until now I've been in denial. Over the past week or so it's really started to hit home that my dad is gone forever and I've been on the brink of having an emotional meltdown for days. It's been just over a month since he died, and while I don't feel I'm capable of working I'm afraid to ask for compassionate leave as I feel the company I work with will think I've had enough time to grieve, or think it's a bit late to ask for any extra time off over a month later. A friend of mine suggested I get my GP to sign me off but I'm unsure of how to handle this situation. What would you do?
I'm pissed off because I'm working a 9am - 6pm today with one of my colleagues. At 10am I explained to her my situation, how I'm struggling to cope and feel very fragile/vulnerable. I politely asked her if I could leave a little early. She smirked at me and in a disbelieving tone said, "Today? I was actually going to ask to leave early..." and when I asked why she said she wanted to plan her mums 50th birthday party and get ready for a night out. I was pretty shocked and didn't reply to what she said. She looked really annoyed but agreed to stay then five minutes later claimed she didn't have her keys so she couldn't lock up if I went home. I think this is a load of rubbish, she has her keys but wants to leave early. I'm eating my lunch just now and when I go back she's leaving early. I'm glad to be honest, can't stand to be in her company right now after her being so insensitive.
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My dad died and I'm afraid to ask for extra compassionate/bereavement leave
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AprilDHarvey · 23/01/2016 14:03
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