New to posting so sorry for any mistakes! Think I just need a combination of advice and a kick up the behind! I don't have a big family to chat to! I'm due to start a new job tomorrow after leaving previous at the end of September. The previous job was full time with Saturdays and a day off in the week, not great pay. New is 20 hours wed-fri, same pay as my full time one. I am a single mum to 10 year old boy, ex only sees him 3 hours every 3 weeks at his choice. Mum lives 2 hours away, dad works full time, no other family. Should be great, however, son is only at school part-time at the moment due to anxiety, luckily have found a childminder to collect him at 12 till I finish 2 days and my Dad will have him on his day off, but obviously money for childcare will be high. Son is also epileptic but this doesn't cause issues, however, the anxiety is so severe he was in hospital a month ago unable to walk as it had triggered a movement disorder that caused him to loose the use of his legs, he also has nose bleeds and panic attacks, school are useless and even the specialists are shocked at their lack of support. We currently have input from counsellor, phycologist 2 neurologists and are waiting for neurological phycologist to due testing for learning disorders etc... then will go for a EHCP for school. Today he his home all day as he is stiff again. I have colitis but can control this mostly although with stress at the moment its tough!
Anyway now you have all that information and hopefully haven't fallen asleep at the length please tell me what you would do?! The job would be great, give me more experience, and time for me, it is a year and if I could go full time after that the wage would enable me to rent without help, but the thought of not being here for son at the moment is overwhelming! I could claim carers allowance, I have in the past as he gets high care DLA. I'm all over the place and just need a talking too I guess! Maybe just pre first day nerves?!
Thank you for reading!!
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Jivetoes · 10/11/2015 11:25
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