Just need some advice really, not sure where to turn in the real world. For lots of reasons I'd rather not go into, I am now in a position where I am looking for a job and getting nowhere fast. Worked for a few hours a week before. I don't have any childcare issues now or anything like that, but I do have an extremely thin CV and even jobs such as cleaning I haven't had any feed back from, let alone an interview! Been turned down for a job last week ( the interview was hard as it was compentence related and I didn't have a lot of experience to draw on for the answers career wise) I am hoping to do a computer course end of this month, but have a feeling it wont go ahead if they don't get enough people to do the course, its already had the start date put back from Jan.
I think that its a combination of not working full time for years and not really having any skills that is holding me back. Its hard to explain but I feel such a failure, even though I know its not going to be easy finding something with so much competition around, plus my age will go against me too I think.
I know I could volunteer myself, but reluctant to do this and I really want to work and earn some money for myself. My DH is good, but he can only earn so much and with my young son off to Uni this year ( fingers crossed) we will need some extra income to help him. I am not entitled to any benefits or anything like that.
had office experience only up 1996, had odd jobs and my little job was for nearly 8 years, so from an employers point of view I guess I am a non starter. the idea of going into an agency fills me with dread, plus my computer knowledge is pretty sparse, not used a pc in a work environment before, so if they were to test me I would be useless! Sorry to sound so whiney but not sure what to do. Anyone else been in this situation? ( it doesn't help that Dh has been in the same job for over 35 years , and works with women that work full time with little ones. He is only supportive up to a point, I am sure he thinks its easier to get a job than it is sometimes) I am hoping that the course does start this time, not sure how much this will help me. I think I am placing too much on this though and it will always be your past experience that is important.
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