I'm due to return to work in a cople of months (part time mon-weds) DS will be just 3 and DD will be 11 months. DS goes to nursery 2 days a week and this will bump up to 3 days and DD will start at the same nursery 3 days a week too.
Well that was the plan but we are now considering a radical alternative! MIL is looking likely to be made redundant with no other viable job options. We had the thought that she could come down to stay with us (they are a 2.5 hour drive away) sun night to weds afternoon and look afterthe kids. We would pay her something like what we save in nursery fees which would be a help to DHs parents financially and the main benefit for us would be we wouldn't have to put Dd in nursery when I go back to work - despite the nursery nearby being outstanding ofsted and well regarded locally, we aren't over impressed and DS doesn't seem particularly happy there. Â We'd prob try to get DS into a preschool but for less hours than he would otherwise do at nursery.
Is anyone else in such an arrangement and can comment on how it works for you? Â Is it a real strain not having time to yourselves with DP in the evenings? Â That's my main concern. Â Also is it awkward or difficult to get your mums / MIL to look after your kids as you want her to? Â Any other negatives I haven't thought of? Â I have to say I'm cautiously keen as I can foresee lots of other advantages like being able to have the odd night out and not having to miss work if the kids are unwell!Â
Thanks for any insights!
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Mum / MIL doing child care when I go back to work - anyone have experience of this?
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Ahhhcantthinkofagoodname · 20/01/2013 22:03
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