One of my colleagues is reacting really strangely to my pregnancy. I guess it?s not that strange, as she?s mentioned in the past that she really wants kids & her partner doesn?t (she?s 41). But it?s really getting me down. Eg. of comments ?you?re going to be really fat aren?t you? You?re going to have to be careful. What does (my DH) think about you getting so fat?? (I do have a very pronounced ?bump? but I?m not fat) and then when we were discussing adding a junior role to the dept. ?That would be a good role for a mother ? not too demanding. Perhaps you could do it when you come back?? and today, when she was talking about a client ?I noticed when she came back from maternity leave, she?s really lost it. These mothers can?t really cope. They become so difficult and aggressive.? She?s also started delegating her work to my assistant, instead of her own, as if my work is suddenly not important now that I?m pg. Aaargh! Has anyone else had to deal with this? She?s at exactly the same level as me ? not senior or junior. Anyone got any suggestions?
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anyone else had to deal with difficult colleague?
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thebecster · 14/12/2005 10:01
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