In this part of Oz, there is a very good public school system available at primary level, and DS has just started attending a brilliant preschool, where he is already being more sociable than he was at nursery. He's only been there 3 weeks.
We know he's bright, but then DH is very bright, and I have a brain in there somewhere... but I've railed against any concious moves to work on it - clubs/extra lessons etc., thinking that if he still seems bright when he gets to primary, we'll just talk to the teacher to see what they think. It's true, though, that over the last couple of years I've had many comments from other parents,doctors etc about his capabilities.
However. The director of the preschool cornered me earlier this week and said she was "blown away" by DS and his comments/answers during group activities and when she chatted to him 1-2-1. That she is difficult to impress after 20 years in hte field, but that he makes her stop in her tracks.
Here, and I mean in this affluent, middle class suburb, it is common for children to see a development psych., or similar, for an assessment, and she thinks we would all benefit from doing this. Apparently it's not just an IQ thing anymore. I was surprised as she has always seemed extremely practical and "play-centred", so this seemed slightly at odds with that.
What do you think? I left the UK when DS was 2 so know nothing about how things are handled over there, but I'm pretty keen on just letting him carry on as he is for a bit.
Any pros or cons you can think of? I suppose I'm worried that if he is that bright, we need to DO something about it, and he's only 4 (and a quarter-ish!).
He does have far too much intuition/emotional awareness (if that's a thing?) but it means he can articulate why he's unhappy which is helpful. He did seem pretty isolated at nursery, I guess because he was the eldest. He used to be friends with the 5 year olds and they all went to primary school.
sorry, that's all a bit muddled. I'm somewhat stumped.
Thanks for any advice.
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Should I take the preschool advice - they think DS should be assessed.
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Jackaroo · 29/01/2010 00:13
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