Here are some "stretching" targets school and I have been working on with my dd 8yrs -
encouraging her to find out about other people by asking them questions, Getting her to think of things she likes about other people (e.g classmates) or things she thinks other people are good at. Asking her to think about things she would like to improve at AND asking how she is going to do this. Finding out about other peoples games and joining in. Giving other children a chance to answer questions and not shouting out. Not rocking on her chair. Controlling her emotions when things don't go her way. Trying to use her intelligence in a useful way - eg helping to sort out arguments between the younger children, complimenting people, thinking about how what she says may be perceived by others, listening more, talking less.
My eldest dd is what I would desribe as gifted - my other dd has been labelled gifted by school but more accurately is quite bright and an early reader. My Dh and I have resisted any attempts by school to move dd1 up/give her harder work. I am more than happy for her to coast academically at school for a bit - she is very self motivated and learns loads at home and I feel it is so much more important to work on areas of personality that for her, and I believe many gifted kids, remain underdeveloped.
I wonder if it unrealistic and unfair to measure a school by only looking at the academic targets children achieve, rather than looking at the other ways they might contribute to the development of a child.
What do people think?
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gracemargaret · 02/05/2008 13:01
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