Hiya all.
ds's 8, he behaves very well at home, he's caring, helpful, loving and considerate when there's only me and him, I'm a single mum and he does not have any brothers and sisters so we are very close but I've been told that he's very anti social at school. He's uncaring, insensitive and rude. I've watched him talk to my friend and he rolls his eyes and grits his teeth as if she's worthless and he can't be bothered to talk. He does not seem to care how his words or actions affect people or what they think of him but when I talk to him about this he understands and tells me that he forgets to be nice or he doesn't realise what he's said. He was hit in the face by another child a couple of weeks ago, it's almost as if he wants to push and push until people can take no more. He doesn't have many friends, people don't invite him to parties or to play, the parents moan behind my back about him, he's skipped a year because he's so bright, the head is unhappy but parents have threatened to remove their children from the school if he is moved into his own age class. I always take him out and he's quite well behaved but can be rude. He's just started a sports class at the weekend to help him to discipline himself, he knows when people are upset so I don't think he has aspergers, he was fine at nursery, he had alot of problems settling in to school when he was in reception and became depressed. I've seen a psychologist who's told me that he's bored but I'm not sure what I can do to help him with his social skills. He's very highly gifted.
Any advice is gratefully recieved.
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avenanap · 03/03/2008 21:46
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