I am loathe to post under this topic as I'm not sure my issue belongs, and so many posters get a rough ride here, but I need advice , so here goes.....Anyone inclined to snipe, please find amusement elsewhere.
DD (almost 7) is a bright spark, and academically able. She has historically been near the top of her class (if not top), grasps concepts quickly, works with speed/accuracy, etc. Over the past few years, several parents with 'gifted' children have commented that I should have dd tested to assess her abilities. To be honest, it wouldn't have occured to me to test her as she's clever, but not in a 'spooky genius' sort of way.
This past summer, we moved to America. The academic system here is very different as children start 'serious' school later. There is also a strong pattern of parents choosing to hold children back a year - not sure if it's to help with maturity, to gain better results or other reasons. Consequently, dd is close to the youngest in her current class (maybe is the youngest).
I met with her teacher a few months ago to express concern about how easy dd was finding the work - who knows how much is down to natural 'brain power' and how much is thanks to an English education. Her teacher was very responsive, and has set dd some more challenging work, while keeping her in a group of her peers.
The teacher also suggested that I have dd tested for entry into a 'gifted student' program that requires a teacher recommendation and test results for admission. DD was tested, and yesterday I received notification that she was accepted into the program. (Note: the assessment lasted about an hour, so not the full battery of IQ and other tests that earn the official 'gifted and talented' label.)
Now my dilemma: I have been encouraged to have an in-depth assessment (paid for by me), but for some reason I feel ambivalent. Is there a downside or upside to doing the tests, and having the results? I will never be a pushy 'but my child has an IQ of X' sort of parent. Could having these tests done benefit me/her, and if so, how?
The second part of the dilemma: this 'talented youth' program runs for a few hours on Saturday mornings. While I relish the thought of her being with a group of (as the program claims) 'academic, social and emotional peers', (and think it would be good for her to be around some children who are more advanced and brighter), I don't want to make pressure her. I also question if she should be sitting inside at a desk on a Saturday morning when she is 7 years old! The organisers make a point of saying that there are no formal academic expectations, and the program is designed to be enjoyable to children who 'need and want' more, but still....
Thoughts?
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Earlybird · 16/11/2007 20:06
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