My DD is 3. She is my PFB. She will be starting reception September 2016. She currently attends pre-school at a pre-prep private school 3 mornings a week, she will be staying there for school. Over the summer holidays I taught her to read, she picked it up quickly and now she is currently reading Oxford Reading Tree stage 9 and 10. We also get the Reading Chest so she gets to read a variety of stuff and not just the same reading scheme. We check her comprehension as well after we read the books.
I obviously knew she was above average, but I wasn't quite expecting the reaction we got from the school after we sent her back after the summer. After one session of her being back we were called into a meeting with the nursery teacher, the year 1 teacher (who they had called over to 'assess' her reading age) and the head of the pre-prep. They said they thought she was 'gifted and talented' and wanted to put in place a learning plan to support her. Her maths skills are also advanced they say. The head of pre-prep actually said she had never seen anything like it (sorry, that sounds really cringeworthy and boastful).
I feel a bit embarrassed by all this... if that makes any sense to you? I feel like I can't talk about any of this in real life as I am scared to be thought of as 'one of those mums'. I am not embarrassed by my DD, just by the situation. Can a 3 year old really be gifted and talented? I mean, surely it is too early to say these things and that most probably she will plateau and the other children will all catch up and it will level out. I am a bit worried about her being labelled so young and then too much pressure being put on her, or the school having too high unrealistic expectations for her.
Sorry, I wasn't expecting this to be so long! My husband thinks this is all a positive thing and it is great the school want to assist her in her learning and great they have picked this up at an early age. To be honest I am not sure what to think of it all, but am glad to have found this board as I hope some of you understand what I mean. When did you guys realise your children where gifted or talented? Do you think the early the better for being 'labeled' this or do you think too young could mean too much pressure or that there is maybe too young an age to actually tell. Thank you if you made it this far :)
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nutellacrumpet · 14/10/2015 16:15
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