My DD is just 8 (year 3) goes to a lovely local state school which she enjoys. She is in a mixed 3/4 class and is on the G&T register (she did individual sats in year 2 and was graded 4a for everything). She is normally a lovely child - bit full on as never stops talking but otherwise fine. I am very happy with how school treat her because they make sure she has enough interesting stuff to do and she has lots of friends. However, just lately she has started to refuse point blank to do her homework. I am not a big fan of homework in primary school but the stuff she is given is not onerous (1 lot of literacy and 1 lot of maths, plus spellings which we never have to practice because she can do them). If she sat down and just did it, it would take 30 minutes tops. Yesterday she spent 2 hours screaming, crying and generally carrying on because she claimed it was too easy, then she changed her tack and said it was too hard. Initially I tried to help her, then I calmly told her if she didn't want to do it I would write a note (this made the tantrum much worse :(), then I tried leaving her on her own to just get on with it. After 1 hour she had written two words. I then lost my temper and sent her to her room and told her not to come out until she could behave like an 8 y.o. and not a toddler. 10 minutes later she came back down and did her homework.
If anybody has any advice please feel free to share as this is starting to ruin whole weekends. I have told her that from next week she will not be allowed tv, wii etc until she has done it. I have no idea if this is g&T related but I posted here because my frustration is around the fact she isn't being given extra hard homework so she could easily do it.
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bitwornout · 20/01/2013 11:17
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