Having been treated for breast cancer five years ago, and seeming by blood tests etc to be clear, my mother has recently been diagnosed with secondary cancer of the spine. Once the hospital actually got their act together and performed an MRI scan (she'd ONLY had symptoms for six months!) she had radiotherapy fairly rapidly.
But unfortunately due to the position of the damaged vertebrae she is now unable to walk or move unaided.
Occupational therapy have done a home assessment etc and physio feel that the spine damage makes it unlikely that she'll be able to use a wheelchair. She will have a hospital bed at home, a hoist, and a reclining chair for daytime.
It is suggested that she will have personal carers three times a day (getting up, lunch and getting to bed) but what my father is concerned about is how things are handled outside these times. He enjoys bowling twice a week, chairs several groups and societies in the evenings etc. These are the sort of things that keep him alive and active, IMO. I may be able to move and live nearby eventually, but not immediately. What options are available for care for mum 'out of hours' as it were? Any advice from anyone who's been in a similar position would be most welcome, thanks.
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MandyD · 28/05/2003 22:57
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