My 11 week old DD is due to have the first of three operations in January. The first operation is to form a colosomy. The second is for reconstruction, the third is for the colostomy reversal. Each op is spread about 2 months apart.
Have any other mums gone through anything similar. How much will it effect her/our lives? Can I still handle her normally, carry her in a wrap carrier/sling etc?
I'm basically terrified by what's to come. It's always there in the background to the point where I have given up trying to stop myself from thinking about it. I'm dreading seeing her suffer and go through these procedures. Seeing her going under the anesthetic and being wheeled off. Not being able to BF her for days as she goers nil by mouth, not being able to co-sleep with her. Leaving my toddler for days at a time. My biggest fear is that something will go wrong and I might loose her.
I know I have no choice but to try and get through this but as the time draws closer, It seems impossible.
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Baby Stoma - Advice & support needed for a scared mum
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veryworriedmummy · 09/12/2007 13:53
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