i will try and give everything i can here - so it will be long
dd home from uni last week. fine happy etc. planning to go back friday. its not far (1- hour public transport) so just assumed she'd gone back when i got home from work friday as she has a p/t job in a club and i know she was working friday. anyway. sunday rolls round and i think -i will go in her room and see what a tip it may be. (door had been shut). see her on the bed. obviously not okay. she is diabetic and i thought it was something called DKA which is serious and needs taking to hospital which i did. she showed signs that it may have been dka - which were - severe confusion/incoherence, urine on the floor - obviously wet herself, couldnt find her blood testing kit so erred on the side of caution and took her in.
when at a and e , they admitted her. she was BORDERLINE dka - for those who are in the know blood ph was 7.35 and bm 19. however most concerning for ME was her inability to communicate.
anyway - ends up on hdu (high dependency unit) on sliding scale (insulin stuff etc to sort diabetes stuff out) and drip and catheterised - what i would expect.
monday morning i go in prior to work early.
miles miles brighter and apparently her bm is now down to 13. although this is where it is very very apparent she CANT talk - literally. and although seems to understand me (to an extent) difficulty responding . i tell staff this and get told she is probably in pain and doesnt want to talk (although with a 1 staff to 2 patients ratio on this ward i really shouldnt have had to tell them and this sounds like BS)
husband sees her lunchtime - he sees how bad she is too and he raises it with staff - they say - has she got psychological problems, and maybe she is an elective mute! NO
that evening I go in and see her and she is million times brighter but she still cant talk - again raise it with staff - told she is quiet and doesnt want to - i say no actually i think there is something wrong. when given her meal - she can use her fork in her left hand but no fine motor skills in right - told they hadnt noticed (forgetting - i asked at breakfast - had they considered that she might have had a stroke - was told they she had been assessed and nothing facial to indicate a stroke and reflexes fine, and if it was a tia then it wouldnt show on a ct scan so no point. she had a small fit that i called the nurse and she saw the end of it.
told that the neuro centre staff from a local unit visit our hospital on a tuesday and she MAY be referred depending on what the consultant thought.
today(no change in her)
met with consultant who (along with the other input we had had) gave the impression that it was her wanting to not speak.
he said that if it was neurological and she was unable to speak she would be more distressed . (she smiles and nods a lot) He actually said she might be putting it on or choosing not to speak . I said - what about the fit- he said that people COULD fake a fit. he said that obviously they would go with the advice of the neuro - but the protcol is if they thought it might be organic they may order ct, mri or lumbar puncture, if they didnt deem it neccessary after an examination she would be referred to psychology.
the inference being - this is what he thought it was.
she did get seen by the neuro - who ordered an immediate ct scan (at 7pm) not waiting till morning. it showed unexplained abnormalities, she is due for a mri in morning . and has been put on klexane which apparently prevents clots
my question is am i being unreasonable to think a 20 year old presenting like this - and with parents pushing - should have been noticed there was a problem, beliieved when we said - its not normal and we think theres a problem, and to want to complain - especially if it causes anything that causes her long term problems.
why wouldnt the klexane be prescribed before neuro saw her, why didnt they believe me, why did they intimate she is faking it.
advice please
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dd in hospital need help. re treatment possible complaint. what to do - help us please!
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hospitalworry · 14/04/2015 20:56
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