DH has CFS which he manages well - only one or two periods off work a year. I know that we are extremely lucky that the impact on our lives is minimal.
He has also had various digestion issues in the past which have improved with no certain diagnosis however a specialist that he saw when in pretty good health suggested ibs caused by stress.
Our first baby is due in about a month and his grandmother was unwell for a few weeks before passing away a couple of weeks ago. Just before she passed my Dh was hospitalised with severe abdominal pain. It was a horrific 24 hours with various pain killers making no difference while he waited for an ultrasound.
The pain subsided an awful lot and dh was discharged following inconclusive results from the scan. He has been referred to a gastro specialist but hasn't heard through from them yet.
This was nearly 3 weeks ago now and whilst the severe pain hasn't returned, dh is still in discomfort most if the time, is fatigued and can't return to work. He's been at the gp on Monday and plans to make another appointment to discuss results from some blood tests.
I know how frustrating he finds it when he's unwell and I don't want to add to the pile but I'm starting to worry myself about how we'll cope when I have this baby.
I try to hide that I'm worried from him but perhaps this makes his worry worse.
I don't really know what I want from this thread. I appreciate that since I'm not the one who's ill that I'm being incredibly selfish self pitying (even privately). Perhaps I just need a good shake
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Fluffybastardcloudkittens · 06/03/2014 14:36
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