A couple of months ago a nice couple moved in next door. Early 40s, no children.
I had the woman over for coffee, where, amongst general chatting, she told me she couldn't have children. I didn't know what to say so left it.
We chatted several times a week, all good getting-to-know-you small talk.
A couple of weeks ago, I had her over at tea time, and instead of coffee we had a bottle of wine and more, where under the power of drink I asked her why she couldn't have children. She told me that she had had liver cancer, and the treatment left her infertile. I usually believe what people tell me, so left it at that.
However, it's been gnawing at me. I am not saying I disbelieve my new neighbour, but I am simply questioning my own beliefs and assumptions. I always thought alcohol was verboten after liver problems, except for a small glass of champagne on Christmas Day. Surely if you had rationed alcohol intake, you wouldn't waste it on a neighbour drop in while the kids are having tea.
I want someone to tell me that alcohol is fine after liver cancer, subject to the usual caveats that we all live under. A couple of things my neighbour has said have taken me aback and I don't want to mistrust her. She and her DP are lovely and we are happy to have them as neighbours, but there is something not quite right that I can't put my finger on.
Looking forward to lots of lovely reassurance. :
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NaturallyGullible · 23/11/2012 20:07
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