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India with 2.1 year old - any tips gratefully received(36 Posts)
I'm going to India for a relatives wedding in a couple of weeks for 1 week. I'm thinking I should take some basic food for DD like pasta. Also it will be a long flight so what I'm after is suggestions for different foods I could take and how to entertain her on the plane. If you have any other advice I would appreciate that too. Many thanks in advance xx
Sorry to be reviving this thread. Just wondered his you got on?
We are going to mohali (near Chandigarh ) with our 3yr old and 6yr old.
We are going on Friday and will be back on the following Friday. The last time I went was 10 years ago and had a great time visiting the Taj Mahal etc. a lot of my mum's family are in India and they will love to meet DD.
Last time I went we used those plug I'm mosquito repellents, they seemed to work really well. The Travel vaccination nurse also told us to use mosquito repellent cream on DD which we will do.
I took a carseat with me and did quite a few internal flights. Had no problems whatsoever. It might be worth buying a cheaper carseat and taking it with you. Also don't bother with a buggy. The pavements are not designed for buggys.
We are going to be near the town of Phagwara. You're right I'm sure I'll be able to buy cartons of juice x
Also bottled water for cleaning teeth.
Where in the Punjab are you going OP (apart from Amritsar)? If it's a big city like Chandigarh, you should be able to buy cartons of juice etc quite easily when you're there.
Golden Temple is lovely.
also never ever drink tap water ( i am sure you wouldnt anyway) enjoy your time
We are going to the Punjab in the North West. I don't think we'll be doing much traveling but really good advice about not putting seat belt around the both of you. We get there on the Saturday and my sister's wedding is on Sunday and we travel back on the Friday so quite a short space of time. The only place I think we'll visit is the Golden Temple at Amritsar.
I've been to India but my DD and strawberry blonde DH hasn't so I think we'll be staying in the shade a lot .
She has had all her vaccinations and her 2nd MMR early. I think I may buy cartons of juice etc from the airport before we go.
Defintely packing calpol/baby nurofen and getting travel medical cover.
I am nervous but quite excited too. xx
She will love it, others will love to see a toddler there, I am a strong believer in showing children different ways of living, to expose them to different cultures. I took mine when they were this age, it'll be such an adventure for you all.
Just seen that you're going in a couple of weeks, which means that it will be quite hot. That does increase the risks somewhat, but I guess it still depends on where you're going. Mosquitos are likely to be an issue, and this would be a concern. You'll need to cover dd's arms and legs, sleep under nets etc. We always avoid mozzie season ourselves...
We are veggie so it isn't an issue, but I'd avoid eating any meat if I were you too. There's always more than enough veggie food available.
Yes, there is a chance of serious illness. There is a chance of getting knocked over by a bus if you venture out of the house in the morning. You have to weigh up the risk against how important it is for you to take her with you. For us, it was a no brainer. Half of dd's family are there, and she'd never see them if we didn't take her.
The risks are massively reduced if you take appropriate precautions. Neither dd nor I have ever been ill, and there is no reason to assume that this will happen. And fwiw, if anything did happen, there are some excellent private hospitals in India - DH had to be admitted for emergency surgery once, and I was very pleasantly surprised. And I hasten to add, he'd have needed the surgery wherever we were, it was nothing to do with being in India.
Oh, and don't forget to buy travel insurance!
I'm another vote for leaving her with the in-laws. It might be fine, but there is significant potential for major, hospitalising illness. I wouldn't risk it.
Oh, and take plenty of calpol, just in case!
Where are you planning to go, OP? We have taken dd to India five times, including once as a baby and twice as a toddler. She has always been fine, and she absolutely loves it there, but you do need to be careful about what you eat & drink, and car seats are an issue!
How will you be travelling around? We had a seatbelt fitted in the back seat of the car that we used, as it had been taken out - didn't cost much, and only took a little while. We take our own car seat but I have heard of inflatable ones - not sure if that might be an option?
When we go, we tend to buy crates of bottled water from a reliable source in Delhi/Gurgaon, and take enough for the whole trip. We like Catch brand or Himalaya. Don't buy bisleri! We also take loo roll and that hand sanitiser stuff is quite useful. You can buy a potty there and carry it around with you. Obviously, this assumes that you'll be travelling around a bit and moving by car. If you're staying in one place and it's a big city, no big deal.
I think it should be fine. We went when dd was 1.10 and she survived on bananas and chapatti! I also took lots of little snack for her from the UK. The next time we went, she was around 3, and then she just ate the normal food. Avoid salad, fruit that you haven't peeled yourself, ice cream and be careful about milk. DD has always been fine with the yoghurt.
The other challenge we had was friendly people who kept giving dd stuff to eat. You just have to be quite firm and explain that she can't have them! And be prepared for them to pinch dd's cheeks a lot! It's a gesture of affection but it used to make dd cry! Now she just finds it hilarious!
I am most familiar with northern India, urban and rural. I believe that south India is supposed to be much cleaner!
I think it will all be fine - enjoy!
Thank you everyone for your replies, I really appreciate the help. It's a good idea to have sandwiches etc for the plane. In relation to the milk I was going to order some toddler milk from the boots at the airport - should be doable we're only there for a week!
But to top it all off I have an exam for the course I'm doing the day before we travel
I would make sure that your DD is always well hydrated. You could put rehydration pills in bottled water. If you BF, give her breast milk instead of water or cow milk.
Avoid any food that has been washed in water (salad, pealed fruit) and avoid ice. Bring a sling, a stroller would have been useless in all of the parts of India I have ever been to.
If you travel by car and do not bring a car seat please make sure you NEVER strap her in with the same seat belt you are using. Your body weight would smash her if you crashed or stopped suddenly.
I think you should go and take her. It might well be her earliest memory!
We went backpacking in Central America (Guatemala and Honduras) when our dc were 5y3m, 3y3m and 16 months. It was great. We all got funny tummies at times (that might have been the bean heavy diet though!) except dd2 who was still bf.
As long as you have all vaccinations (including bcg) and are vigilant about hygiene, it should be fine. Even though she may well not remember it, it's educational and she will gain loads from the trip.
My dh spent 5 months working in India on a gap year (before they were invented) and we're thinking of taking the children there next year, when they'll be 14, 12 and 10.
Have a great time.
Take small cheap toys for the flight. I put some chocolate crispier in a small container and it took ages for DD to go through them. Pack sandwiches for the flight. That way you can let dd sleep and you don't have to wake her for the plane meal.
In India make sure you are careful with the milk. Everyone always thinks its the water but you also need to be careful with milk. In some places the milk is not pasteurised and is used straight from the farm. Ask if the milk is from a carton.
Have fun. My DC lived India and still talk about it.
I may try and speak to my mum again. You're right it's very stressful and I'll be doing all the hard work x
Coke is more reliable. Bottle of unopened Evian in a posh hotel, no problem- dusty no name brand from a cart- problem. Work on your mum. DD won't get anything out of it, she'll be fine, but it seems a bit unfair if your mum to want her there just for the show, when it'll be you with the worry and donkey work!!
Just thinking should you refrain from drinking bottled water there too? X
It's only for a week so might have to grin and bear it. I did want lot leave DD at home with inlaws but my mum was very disappointed. I think we'd have done loads more if we weren't talking her, certainlyprr traveling! X
It's doable for one week- forget all about normal food rules and just concentrate on clean stuff. So coke rather than water, loads of bananas and sweets. You'll also need to reconcile yourself to travelling without car seats. Even if you take a booster or light seat, where are you going to put it in an autorickshaw or car with no belts.
If you can leave her you'd have much better time, though!
Thanks for replies, I was working late yesterday so didn't see replies. I'm not a 100% about car seat, what did others do? Can u buy one when u get there? X
But what will you do about car seats?
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